PATIENCE

At the end of 2013, I read a blog post in which a mother mentioned that she chooses a "Word for the Year" to apply to herself.  I thought that sounded like a great idea---just one word to think about all year through and on which I would really focus.

So, I decided to give it a try for 2014.  I chose the word "patience" as my word to focus on all year.  I chose "patience" for several reasons:

1.  I want to be more patient with my husband and really listen to him.
2.  I want to be more patient with my children so that we have a more relaxed atmosphere around our home.
3.  I want to be more patient with myself so that I give myself a little grace when things aren't going according to plan.

I wrote the word "patience" in colorful letters on an index card and placed it in a conspicuous place for me---right in the middle of the top of my dresser.  That way, I can see it every day in the morning and at night and even at other times when I am cleaning or putting laundry away.  You could even post several reminders around the house, but I wanted to put my card in a place that was personal to me.

Now that June is beginning, I was thinking about my word, as it has been 5 full months since I selected it.  I have decided that I love having a word for the year.  It does motivate me when I see it each day.  I am not sure if I am a more patient person (I guess you would have to interview my family to determine that), but I know that I am thinking about it much more often, and for me, that is half the battle.

If you are interested in trying out this idea, you could try it for the second half of 2014, starting July 1.  Just spend a few minutes thinking carefully about the word you would like to choose---something you really want to focus on that would make a difference in your life.  Then, write it down and post it in a prominent place for you.

I am trying so hard lately to live a deliberate life and to act intentionally every day, and this little note is a gentle reminder of the person I want to be.  This one small action has had a positive influence on my life and was certainly worth the few minutes of reflection that I took in order to choose my word.  I am excited to keep focusing on patience for the remainder of 2014.